Breastfeeding Woes

I would like to smack everyone who told me breastfeeding would be easy. Let’s throw in some basic throttling for all the miserable information out there about how if you DON’T breastfeed you might as well be abusing your baby.
Don’t get me wrong, we remain committed to making this work, but it is NOT “easy”.
Thus far:
1. J. and his bad latch have chewed me up something terrible. Before I left the hospital the nurse/lactation consultant told me we needed to treat my nipples as “open wounds” and prescribed a topical antibiotic to prevent infection.
2. Because of the massive doses of antibiotics I received, I (probably) started to develop thrush. I’m now on an oral antifungal.
3. The nursing supplementer system seems like a great idea until you are finger feeding two babies ’round the clock.
4. Telling a family with twins not to use bottles to avoid “nipple confusion” is downright cruel. When someone else can feed the babies, I can sleep. If I am dead from exhaustion I can’t even pump.
5. The hospital nurses were well intentioned, but over-worked and busy. Having many different women tell me many different things over our hospital stay didn’t really help.
6. Based on pumping, my volume of milk is going up daily. Tuesday I struggled to get out 7cc at a time. Today I sucked out 60.
7. That pump is loud.
So…things are getting better. But it remains very frustrating that we got such incomplete information ahead of time. The class we took was mostly useless and there is very little useful (as in, reasonable and not designed to invoke guilt if you stray from the approved path) information on how to do this with twins.

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July 15th, 2006 12:09
Ah, these a what are referred to as “the joys of parenthood”. It would be better stated as the anxiety of parenthood, but hang in there, your’re doing all the right things. Being bombarded with conflicting information only serves to go with your instincts, ask your mother, and then check with the pediatrician.
Yes indeed, it is scary, but you have lots of resources available. Lucky that Brian is willing and available to help out, and more grandparents are on the way. Someone said that the reason women had a menopause was to preserve the species. If they were still taking care of young, they could not assist their daughters in taking care of their young, so take advantage of it. It’s meant to be that way. And remember, Gramma had twins, so don’t be afraid to ask her for advice.
Hang in there, and keep pumping! Love to all, Aunti Jane
August 12th, 2006 07:50
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