A day in the life…
The past day’s schedule:
6:00 PM: B. home. I tell him he needs to take over, it’s been a rough day.
6:30 PM: dinner. Take turns eating while one person attends to whomever is crying.
7:00 PM: Go upstairs to shower. Breasts leaking. Pump. Bring milk down. Both babies are crying. Sit and feed J. while B. feeds F.
8:00 PM: Take 2 on the shower
9:00 PM: Go to bed.
10:30 PM: Pump
12:30 PM: Wake up to pump. Turn off air conditioner downstairs and in spare bedroom (which B. had turned on for reasons that I am sure made sense at the time.) Let cat out of storage room, which she managed to get locked in since 2.
1:30 AM: Feed, burp, change F.
1:45 AM: Pump
2:00 AM: Feed, burp, change J. Pees while changing him. I am so tired I stare at arc of urine in utter perlexity.
3:00 AM: turn out lights, go to “sleep”
3:45 AM: Feed F.
4:00 AM: Pump
4:30 AM: Feed J. Have meltdown. Leave babies in bassinet and go to basement for 15 minutes. They are quiet when I get back. This lasts until I get into bed.
5:00 AM: put J. on chest in hopes that will soothe him. Alternate between patting and rubbing back for 45 minutes.
5:45 AM: Get up. Feed J. Change J.
6:00 AM: Feed and change F.
6:15 AM: Suspicious sound causes me to change J. again. Poops twice and pees once while I am changing him.
7:00 AM: Doula arrives. God is good. She takes over.
7:05 AM: Breasts leaking prolifically. Pump.
7:30 AM: Go to sleep
9:30 AM: Pump
9:45 AM: Go to sleep
12:00 Noon: Nurse F.
1:00 PM: Feed J.
2:00 PM: Feed J. and F., alternating as they cry. Change when done.
3:00 PM: Change sheets on bed.
4:00 PM: same as 2:00, with a bath thrown in (for them, not me)
4:45 PM: B. home early. Watches babies while on conference call.

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August 4th, 2006 08:56
Stacie, have faith, this too shall pass. Tough going at first, but a schdule will develop. So happy the doula is working out. The photos are darling. love, Jane
August 29th, 2006 17:16
Hi Stacie, it’s Witters here! I can certainly sympathyse with your schedual (((hugs))) Have you tried feeding them both together? I find that tandem feeding is the way to go as it certainly takes up less time, plus makes it easier to know who has had what and when. The leaky boobs thing feels just yuck.
The photo’s are just adorab;le!