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	<title>Comments on: I&#8217;m a Neglectful Mother</title>
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		<title>By: Bookmarks Tagged Neglectful</title>
		<link>http://twinkies.bastetweb.com/2007/10/29/im-a-neglectful-mother/#comment-8124</link>
		<dc:creator>Bookmarks Tagged Neglectful</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Dec 2007 08:45:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] bookmarks tagged neglectful I’ma Neglectful Mother&#160;saved by 1 others  &#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;leesz bookmarked on 12/31/07 &#124; [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] bookmarks tagged neglectful I’ma Neglectful Mother&nbsp;saved by 1 others  &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;leesz bookmarked on 12/31/07 | [&#8230;]</p>
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		<title>By: Kami</title>
		<link>http://twinkies.bastetweb.com/2007/10/29/im-a-neglectful-mother/#comment-7381</link>
		<dc:creator>Kami</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Nov 2007 17:03:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I could totally teach that class!

Here's to to us, the one's enjoying our coffee on the bench :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I could totally teach that class!</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s to to us, the one&#8217;s enjoying our coffee on the bench <img src='http://twinkies.bastetweb.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Stu Mark</title>
		<link>http://twinkies.bastetweb.com/2007/10/29/im-a-neglectful-mother/#comment-7343</link>
		<dc:creator>Stu Mark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Nov 2007 17:09:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://twinkies.bastetweb.com/2007/10/29/im-a-neglectful-mother/#comment-7343</guid>
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your hilarious post has been nominated by our readers over at <a href="http://www.gnmparents.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.gnmparents.com</a> for &#8220;Hot Stuff Of The Week.&#8221; Congrats, and good luck in the voting!</p>
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		<title>By: Hot Stuff Of The Week! &#124; GNMParents - Parenting Tips, News, Discussions, And Diatribes</title>
		<link>http://twinkies.bastetweb.com/2007/10/29/im-a-neglectful-mother/#comment-7342</link>
		<dc:creator>Hot Stuff Of The Week! &#124; GNMParents - Parenting Tips, News, Discussions, And Diatribes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Nov 2007 16:32:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://twinkies.bastetweb.com/2007/10/29/im-a-neglectful-mother/#comment-7342</guid>
		<description>[...] is a mother of twins, who very candidly, and with humor to spare, explains why she thinks she is a neglectful mother. I&#8217;ll never eat yogurt the same way [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] is a mother of twins, who very candidly, and with humor to spare, explains why she thinks she is a neglectful mother. I&#8217;ll never eat yogurt the same way [&#8230;]</p>
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		<title>By: Babyamore</title>
		<link>http://twinkies.bastetweb.com/2007/10/29/im-a-neglectful-mother/#comment-6925</link>
		<dc:creator>Babyamore</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Oct 2007 06:36:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://twinkies.bastetweb.com/2007/10/29/im-a-neglectful-mother/#comment-6925</guid>
		<description>don't feel guilty ... what do our children do while we are blogging away ..amuse themselves.Of course we let them explore their world but we jump when we hear the screams.
They had their hat and shoes on didn't they ?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>don&#8217;t feel guilty &#8230; what do our children do while we are blogging away ..amuse themselves.Of course we let them explore their world but we jump when we hear the screams.<br />
They had their hat and shoes on didn&#8217;t they ?</p>
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		<title>By: Pann</title>
		<link>http://twinkies.bastetweb.com/2007/10/29/im-a-neglectful-mother/#comment-6922</link>
		<dc:creator>Pann</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Oct 2007 03:11:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://twinkies.bastetweb.com/2007/10/29/im-a-neglectful-mother/#comment-6922</guid>
		<description>I so want a chicken coop.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I so want a chicken coop.</p>
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		<title>By: Heather</title>
		<link>http://twinkies.bastetweb.com/2007/10/29/im-a-neglectful-mother/#comment-6916</link>
		<dc:creator>Heather</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Oct 2007 02:38:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://twinkies.bastetweb.com/2007/10/29/im-a-neglectful-mother/#comment-6916</guid>
		<description>If you ever need a substitute teacher I'd be happy to step in for you.  I've become a pro at neglecting all 4 of mine!  ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you ever need a substitute teacher I&#8217;d be happy to step in for you.  I&#8217;ve become a pro at neglecting all 4 of mine!  <img src='http://twinkies.bastetweb.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Stacie</title>
		<link>http://twinkies.bastetweb.com/2007/10/29/im-a-neglectful-mother/#comment-6897</link>
		<dc:creator>Stacie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Oct 2007 17:58:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://twinkies.bastetweb.com/2007/10/29/im-a-neglectful-mother/#comment-6897</guid>
		<description>I remember that as a kid I used to run - not walk but RUN - along the top of a retaining wall at the "beach" near our house.  I did this with no supervision and usually alone.

(I put beach in quotes because Maine beaches are mud, rocks and gravel and thus not what most people think of when they picture beach. )

If I had fallen off I would have had to either climb the stairs with whatever I had broken and go the long way home, or scrambled up the mini-cliff short cut I usually used to get down to the beach.  If the tide was low I could have gone the route of the slippery rocks.  It kind of terrifies me in retrospect.  I was, of course, always fine.  I did have a friend break his wrist but that was because he tripped over his own two feet while walking on the ground.   

I am going to make a real effort to remember that as the kids get older.  You get bumped and bruised as a kid.  

Kelly Jo - Your chicken coop line made be laugh at the keyboard.  And your grandmother's view is one I will recall when I am feeling especially guilty for insisting on having time for myself each day.  Or every other day, at least.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I remember that as a kid I used to run - not walk but RUN - along the top of a retaining wall at the &#8220;beach&#8221; near our house.  I did this with no supervision and usually alone.</p>
<p>(I put beach in quotes because Maine beaches are mud, rocks and gravel and thus not what most people think of when they picture beach. )</p>
<p>If I had fallen off I would have had to either climb the stairs with whatever I had broken and go the long way home, or scrambled up the mini-cliff short cut I usually used to get down to the beach.  If the tide was low I could have gone the route of the slippery rocks.  It kind of terrifies me in retrospect.  I was, of course, always fine.  I did have a friend break his wrist but that was because he tripped over his own two feet while walking on the ground.   </p>
<p>I am going to make a real effort to remember that as the kids get older.  You get bumped and bruised as a kid.  </p>
<p>Kelly Jo - Your chicken coop line made be laugh at the keyboard.  And your grandmother&#8217;s view is one I will recall when I am feeling especially guilty for insisting on having time for myself each day.  Or every other day, at least.</p>
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		<title>By: Alice</title>
		<link>http://twinkies.bastetweb.com/2007/10/29/im-a-neglectful-mother/#comment-6896</link>
		<dc:creator>Alice</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Oct 2007 17:14:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://twinkies.bastetweb.com/2007/10/29/im-a-neglectful-mother/#comment-6896</guid>
		<description>(Most) Germs = Good.

I tried for a week to get Gabey to not get off of the couch face first. Finally, I realized it's only about 18 inches onto carpet. So what? He went face first, bumped himself a bit, did it again, got upset and then decided feet first is so much better. Thankfully, he's applied this to the stairs as well, where I am not as willing to let him experiment.

I totally get you on the "Since I can’t actually follow both of them around I’ve been forced to accept watching." bit. It's true. I try to mediate between being wild and imminent calamity, but within reason I just let them go.</description>
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<p>I tried for a week to get Gabey to not get off of the couch face first. Finally, I realized it&#8217;s only about 18 inches onto carpet. So what? He went face first, bumped himself a bit, did it again, got upset and then decided feet first is so much better. Thankfully, he&#8217;s applied this to the stairs as well, where I am not as willing to let him experiment.</p>
<p>I totally get you on the &#8220;Since I can’t actually follow both of them around I’ve been forced to accept watching.&#8221; bit. It&#8217;s true. I try to mediate between being wild and imminent calamity, but within reason I just let them go.</p>
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		<title>By: Allison</title>
		<link>http://twinkies.bastetweb.com/2007/10/29/im-a-neglectful-mother/#comment-6894</link>
		<dc:creator>Allison</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Oct 2007 16:35:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://twinkies.bastetweb.com/2007/10/29/im-a-neglectful-mother/#comment-6894</guid>
		<description>I've often thanked my mother for just tossing me outside on weekends and holidays with a snack and orders not to come back in until she called me.  Yes, I have scars on both knees and elbows.  There is even some 30 year old gravel still in there. And the memories that go along with them are fantastic!  My stepson is one of those who was never allowed outside without Mom watching over him, can't ride a bike, is afraid of getting hurt/heights/bugs/dirt/possibly air... (he's 13, btw).  Not a scar on him.  I don't think I've ever seen him get a scratch or a bruise.  I know I've never put a band-aid on him.  And those stories about the great computer game he played just don't seem to have the same sense of childhood adventure.  Annoys the crap out of me that if you don't direct him to do something he just stands there and stares because he can't figure out to entertain himself.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve often thanked my mother for just tossing me outside on weekends and holidays with a snack and orders not to come back in until she called me.  Yes, I have scars on both knees and elbows.  There is even some 30 year old gravel still in there. And the memories that go along with them are fantastic!  My stepson is one of those who was never allowed outside without Mom watching over him, can&#8217;t ride a bike, is afraid of getting hurt/heights/bugs/dirt/possibly air&#8230; (he&#8217;s 13, btw).  Not a scar on him.  I don&#8217;t think I&#8217;ve ever seen him get a scratch or a bruise.  I know I&#8217;ve never put a band-aid on him.  And those stories about the great computer game he played just don&#8217;t seem to have the same sense of childhood adventure.  Annoys the crap out of me that if you don&#8217;t direct him to do something he just stands there and stares because he can&#8217;t figure out to entertain himself.</p>
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